On Finding Real Connections
I’ve been thinking lately about how I like to spend time with people. Sometimes we socialize just for the sake of it. Other times, it is because we truly enjoy the company. I find the former tiring, but the latter deeply fulfilling. There is something special about being with people who make you think, who listen with intent, and who help you see the world a little differently. Whether at work or in personal circles, there is always a balance between what you enjoy and what you feel obligated to do. When you reflect on it long enough, deeper questions begin to surface. Do I socialize to grow my network? What does that even mean? Am I looking for a favor somewhere down the line? Or am I just afraid of missing out if I am not part of the local chatter? These days, most of my new interactions happen through my children. Their friends’ parents are the people I end up spending the most time with. Some of them I genuinely enjoy talking to because we connect on familiar ground. With other...
Looks like I have seen this...wait did I send this as thought of the day ? ;-)
ReplyDeleteman,
ReplyDeleteI had this poem in my eighth standard!! One of my alltime favourite poems...and the most inspiring..!! and maybe u sent it as thought for the day...i dont remember!!
I did not say I wrote it.
ReplyDeleteCmon...even i never meant that:-))
ReplyDeletea really inspiring one, especially for people like us who perpetually lack the motivation to do things.
ReplyDeleteAahaa.. That rings a bell. Rudyard Kipling oda poem-a eppovo school-la padichcha nyabagam..
ReplyDeleteIf...
ReplyDeleteYes a classic.. but then i remember reading in the 'LONDON' magazine of lit abt someone who got to india and heard a student reciting 'If'. The article went on to says something abt the value system of India as against the west. And about how the desirable values are changing the world over while India's sticking on..
Good or bad? Don't ask me..